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> There's also a choice aspect of this. Points taken above. I'll just point out that the focus on fairness is a strong human trait, and IMHO it is a trait tha
by gerbilly 10y ago
> There's also a choice aspect of this.
Points taken above.
I'll just point out that the focus on fairness is a strong human trait, and IMHO it is a trait that we over-express. Often our notion of fairness is very biased as well.
We are most likely to recognize situations that are unfair against us, but easily gloss over all the unfair advantages we may have.
An anecdote: One time I was complaining to my grandmother that something wasn't fair, what did I do to deserve this... etc.[1]
And she said: "Don't say that. If we got just a fraction of what we had coming to us for our sins, we'd be in big trouble!"
If we insist that things should be fair, let's be very careful about what we wish for.
[1] She was the most upstanding, hardworking honest person I have ever met, and a whole community agrees with me. And even though her point was made from within a religious framework, I think it is very applicable. She died almost 20 years ago, and she would have been 100 years old today. She is greatly missed. I also realize it's a bit of an imposition to mention this in your thread. I just wanted to insert a reference to a remarkable individual on this anniversary. Her name is Thérèse Pilon.
- morgante 10y agoI don't think your anecdote or point is very strong unless you believe in the notion of "sin." I think I've been appropriately rewarded and punished for my decisions in life.
- gerbilly 10y agoI believe the portion of my good fortune I have earned to be far far inferior to the total. I'll probably never even _know_ the totality of my good fortune, like the portion of an iceberg that lies under water it's invisible to me. I'm not trying to persuade exactly... I just feel that this may be true for many of us. Anyway, thanks for listening.