It's certainly something to be overweight and expect your partner to maintain an athletic figure, whatever language you want to put on it. There is probably som

It's certainly something to be overweight and expect your partner to maintain an athletic figure, whatever language you want to put on it. There is probably some small portion of athletic women that prefer overweight men, but the majority will prefer athletic men, so why should my partner settle for flubber? There have been a lot of comments about - oh, unless you do it for yourself, you'll quit! This is nonsense. I know a lot of extremely fit guys and the many of them are doing it to impress women very successfully. It's also just one more motivating factor among many to keep your body in good condition. I've been working out for years and I find the actual activities inane. Pick up the heavy thing. Put it down. YAYYYY slightly heavier. However, I want toned muscles for many reasons, so I just do it. It's really not that hard to just discipline yourself, particularly if you are as interested in longevity as I am.