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There's nothing I can argue about what you have said. I would love to see that change, I don't have any special desire of making women uncomfortable at their wo
by namaemuta 10y ago
There's nothing I can argue about what you have said. I would love to see that change, I don't have any special desire of making women uncomfortable at their workplace and even less to feel myself uncomfortable around them. I would gladly put on practise any new idea on that purpose but many of the things I've seen lately don't look like they have that purpose or go beyond that, making us men to feel "threatened" (maybe that's no the right word but I think you get the idea).
- Mz 10y agoI get that this is something people find threatening and that a lot of what gets written is real blamey and accusatory. I get that men get framed as the bad guy. I have literally spent my entire life working out another answer. I try to blog about that. I don't get much attention. I think I have something unique to offer in that regard. I would sincerely appreciate it if I got more comments and I got promoted more by people in some way. Currently, it is mostly me posting my own writing and people largely ignore it. If you want to see more constructive discussion and the spreading of the idea that, yes, things need to change without the subtext of because men are all rapey bastards and assholes, please consider leaving comments on my blog and sharing links to things you agree with on it. Here is what I happened to have just finished writing when I saw your comment here, which I think I probably won't bother to post to HN because I am so frustrated with being ignored and with other aspects of doing that: http://micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com/2016/09/change.html http://micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com/2016/09/change.html Have a great day.