It might be, but I try to read comments like this one a little more charitably. People tend to see things through the lens of their own thoughts and experience

It might be, but I try to read comments like this one a little more charitably. People tend to see things through the lens of their own thoughts and experiences. The author of the post in question is probably just trying to provide advice based on how they'd feel in a similar situation. The wording probably made it seem more abrasive than it was intended to be.