> This is IMO and experience probably based on a "sour grapes" type defense mechanism It's not just going to be 'sour grapes' but also going to be preparing th

> This is IMO and experience probably based on a "sour grapes" type defense mechanism It's not just going to be 'sour grapes' but also going to be preparing themselves for the rejection they now believe is coming. They're making it so they're not surprised when it shows up or when they don't hear back. They're also making themselves more open to other offers instead of focusing on this one.