Oh absolutely. The other side isn't necessarily better, it just comes with a different set of risks/costs/benefits. You have to weigh those against each other t

Oh absolutely. The other side isn't necessarily better, it just comes with a different set of risks/costs/benefits. You have to weigh those against each other to see which makes more sense for your situation. But if you take the less safe/secure option, you can't expect much sympathy.