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I scrolled down to the bottom of the page, and there's a little ad to subscribe to Scientific American 'Mind' magazine. One of the issues has 'How to Raise a Ha
by thom 10y ago
I scrolled down to the bottom of the page, and there's a little ad to subscribe to Scientific American 'Mind' magazine. One of the issues has 'How to Raise a Happy Child' across its front page, 'The essential guide to improving kid behaviour and resilience'.
That pretty much sums up the impression I get from American attitudes to parenting and early childhood. Behave, be resilient, and when the time comes, take your measly week of parental leave to teach your baby to behave and be resilient too.
Prevention is better than cure: the traumas of early childhood sow the seeds for a lifetime of anxiety and unhappiness. I don't really believe there is a long term solution to widespread mental health issues without concentrating on that fact, and enabling parents to provide the love, bonding and security their children require. But instead, in the US and here in the UK, we make parents' lives harder and harder (especially those in low paid jobs or out of work) and assume that an online course of CBT in a few decades will mop up any problems.
- fil_a_del_fee_a 10y ago"the traumas of early childhood sow the seeds for a lifetime of anxiety and unhappiness." VERY well said!
- alanwatts 10y agoThe family unit has been anything but since the industrial age. For ~99% of human history, families lived, learned, and worked closely together. As of late, the opposite is now true. How can parents provide adequate love and bonding to their children when they both spend the majority of their time separated from each other with strangers at school/work?
- Noseshine 10y agoWhat's more, not just the family as a small group, but also the larger groups of many families and generations remaining close and connected. Today with so many people moving around the country and even the world (me, for example, the latter as well as the former), those close networks just don't exist any more.