I think this author is missing (or maybe the OTHER article covered it) some very valid points. I didn't see the first point on this list mentioned once, and I

I think this author is missing (or maybe the OTHER article covered it) some very valid points. I didn't see the first point on this list mentioned once, and I got lost about mid-way through he article in a rage of searching for it... * AIDS, it started coming out in the 80s, but the time period that it's been the most scary is exactly during the years that many in the covered population segment(s) formed their opinion of the risks of sexual relations. * Consent is, very dicey. * Feminism has empowered women, to a degree, but it has not yet achieved true gender equality, nor has it liberated men from traditional gender roles. In many contexts men are still held to the prior rules and even assumed to be at fault/guilty (not that it can't be the case, just that we aren't running a society based on scientifically provable /facts/). * Economics. The price of housing, a stable job you can expect to exist for a long time, an actual career path in a single location with a single company, a reasonable commute. It's incredibly difficult to find that for one, let alone a pair, and then adding 'good schools' on top?