> If a man gets a woman pregnant (possibly anonymously), there's much lower cost and stress. It's exactly the other way around. If I get a woman pregnant by a

> If a man gets a woman pregnant (possibly anonymously), there's much lower cost and stress. It's exactly the other way around. If I get a woman pregnant by accident and she wants it and I don't, I lose $1000+ a month for the next 18 years. If it's the other way around, she can get an abortion and be back to normal in a couple of months. Not that this is easy on her, but it's easier than earning $200k...