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In cases like these, it's worth thinking a bit about tolerance. Tolerance, simply put, is behaving politely and professionally towards people and organizations
by ufmace 10y ago
In cases like these, it's worth thinking a bit about tolerance. Tolerance, simply put, is behaving politely and professionally towards people and organizations that you dislike. Note the "that you dislike" part.
Think you're tolerant because, say, you don't mind being around gay people? Well, do you hate gay people? If you say no to that, then you aren't being tolerant at all by being around them, you're just normal.
Do you hate, say, Neo-nazis? Then you can demonstrate your tolerance by engaging with them politely and professionally if you encounter any.
Apparently, at some point, we not only ran away from being proud of our tolerance, many people are wearing their level of intolerance as a badge of pride. In some circles, it seems to be a good thing to find anybody who disagrees with you in some way, and gather a virtual lynch mob to make sure that the worst thing you can arrange happens to them.
Personally, I don't think Crockford did anything wrong. But if you do, why don't you try demonstrating your tolerance by welcoming him at your conference anyways and listening to his views on technical subjects? If he says something that bothers you, you can calmly and politely explain to him how his statement hurt you, or maybe even just let it go. That's what tolerance looks like.
Can we please get back to making real tolerance something to be proud of?