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What does your obstetrician say?
by pg 17y ago
What does your obstetrician say?
- abstractbill 17y agoShe was frustratingly noncommittal to be honest, but I only thought of phrasing the question in the "would you do this for your children" way after our last appointment - I'll probably ask her that next time we meet.
- pg 17y agoI learned a few years ago that that was the best way to ask any doctor any question.
- dschobel 17y agoDitto. Especially after one made a glib comment in front of his intern how a simple procedure (a nerve test) could potentially puncture my lung but it was my decision whether I wanted it. "What would you recommend for a family member" gets a noticeable change of demeanor/gravity.
- dnsworks 17y agoPersonally I've found, "Assume that I'm paying you in cash, not with insurance" as a prefix to a question is very, very helpful with doctors. Before I tried this approach, I would get "you might want to consider having your tonsils removed. Have a nice day" over and over again for about 8 years. After I tried this approach it was, "Go see an ENT and have them removed immediately!". From the same doctor who was otherwise afraid of insurance related referral paperwork.
- justinchen 17y agoOur OB/GYN, who does stem cell research, said she doesn't really recommend it since there isn't a high probability of using it (weighed against the cost). But my father-in-law who's also an OB/GYN only wanted the best for his granddaughter so he foot the bill :) Here's my blog post on it: http://athomedad.justinchen.net/storing-cord-blood http://athomedad.justinchen.net/storing-cord-blood