> What they are saying is that switching from "he" to "they" is simple and easy I get that and if I remember to use it, I will, but when I instinctively do not

> What they are saying is that switching from "he" to "they" is simple and easy I get that and if I remember to use it, I will, but when I instinctively do not use it, because well, "he" still comes more naturally to me than "they", it should not be assumed that I am sexist, bigoted etc. because I made a particular choice of words that can be reasonably interpreted as not meant to explicitly exclude people, unless they're looking for it. > will make life better for many people It's true that it may make them feel better, if they're looking at every use of a gendered pronoun from a "it's sexist" perspective, but I'd argue that's unproductive and not really making their life any better in a meaningful way > It's correct English That's good, but that doesn't mean that it's "intuitive" English for everyone and they shouldn't feel bad for it.