The question is, do you have meaning in your life? Romantic marriage is just a way to find meaning, by devoting yourself to someone else. If that sort of mean

The question is, do you have meaning in your life? Romantic marriage is just a way to find meaning, by devoting yourself to someone else. If that sort of meaning appeals to you, then be open to marriage. If that doesn't appeal to you, or you aren't willing to make other meanings in your life secondary, marriage probably isn't going to work out. Regardless of what you decide, don't be one of those people who is looking for someone to marry. For it to work, marriage really has to be a natural evolution of the relationship.