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Thank you! That's a great perspective. What did you do in the mean time between 30 and 38? Did you date many people? What made you settle down with the person y

• endswapper 10y ago
  Between the ages of 30 and 38 I have been focused on my career primarily. I am interested in building and creating and that has always been my focus. I have dated a bunch, but I am not a fan of it. For me, my comfort level requires some time, so I have always preferred a relationship as opposed to a couple of months here and there dating. I don't think there is a right or wrong there, it's entirely personal preference. I will say that between 15 and 35 I got everything out of my system. When I got married I was not worried about anything I hadn't done yet. I am originally from the Midwest and I have lived in Los Angeles and Manhattan multiple times, and traveled internationally, so my experiences have been diverse. There is no right person, age or time. I appreciate that you are looking for an answer, but I think it comes down to faith. I mean this in the most non-religious way possible, but I am not sure how else to describe it. When you believe things are going to work because you believe you and your partner have the same understanding and objectives regarding the relationship, and you believe your partner has the same belief, I think that's as close as you can get to knowing the answer to any of those questions about right person, time or age. I was not looking and I was surprised with who it was, as well as when and where I found my wife.