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I'm very fascinated by the phrase "disgruntled former employee". Obviously she's disgruntled, that simply means one is unhappy. But the implication is that be
by 20yrs_no_equity 10y ago
I'm very fascinated by the phrase "disgruntled former employee". Obviously she's disgruntled, that simply means one is unhappy. But the implication is that because one is unhappy with their employment experience, one somehow loses credibility.
Where is it, and why is it, that people who one minute will rant against evil corporations on the other hand when reading about how an employee was mistreated will blame the victim? (I'm speaking generally, but for instance when Amazon's practices came to light there was a bit of victim blaming going on here.)
Why is the presumption of innocence for the employer so strong?
This goes further into hiring practices-- if you look at it objectively, hiring practices are very one sided. Employers make the demands take all of the time for questions, will rebuff questions they don't want to answer (like what's the cap table look like? how many shares outstanding on a fully diluted basis? - things you need to know to evaluate the offer) while simultaneously demanding to know your salary history- and recently I've seen reports of employers demanding poof of salary history with the threat of termination if you don't supply it.
Market forces can make one player have more power than the other, and in the great depression employers had a lot more power. but it's fascinating how the culture has enshrined that power, and people accept it.
If you complain about an employer, this is not taken as a sign the employer is bad, it's taken as a sign you are bad.
But if you complain about bad service at a restaurant, we don't assume you're a bad eater.
- aconcerneduser 10y ago>Why is the presumption of innocence for the employer so strong? Simple human group dynamics. In their "collective wisdom" a group of people, in this case, a company, simply can't be wrong. The disgruntled employee outlier is the one that's in the wrong. Human nature is to punish those who "rock the boat", even if they rock said boat with good reason.
- jdale27 10y agoGood point. It's the same dynamic as with burnout, where it's common to assume that it's the burned-out employee that is sick/weak, rather than the company.
- acheron 10y agoBut if you complain about bad service at a restaurant, we don't assume you're a bad eater. I usually do assume this, at least when reading Yelp reviews.