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> sexually incompatible with the person you married That's as much of a myth as monogamy. Incompatible just means they're not attracted to you, or you to them.
by antisthenes 10y ago
> sexually incompatible with the person you married
That's as much of a myth as monogamy. Incompatible just means they're not attracted to you, or you to them. Call it what it is.
- PuffinBlue 10y agoSo both parties are physically/emotionally attracted to each other lets say but they're both submissive, or one has HL and the other LL (/r/deadbedrooms if you want more), or one's into monogomy and the other is polyamorous. Just a few examples that confirm it's not a 'myth'.
- antisthenes 10y agoA few anecdotes you mean. Polyamory usually signals a low quality mate, and is tangential to sexual compatibility at best. Submissive usually means some disorder with the male. There are tons of disorders that could impact sexual quality of life, but between 2 healthy individuals who are attracted to each other, sexual incompatibility is a myth.
- nommm-nommm 10y agoThis is some fucked up shit. Submissiveness is a disorder? No it's not. Sure we can play this game because it's a tautology. My sexual preferences are different from yours? It's a disorder, doesn't count, you aren't healthy.
- Maskawanian 10y agoHaving experienced this personally, no, it isn't.
- nommm-nommm 10y agoIf I want sex a few times a month and my partner wants sex every day that means I'm not attracted to them? No, it's well established people have differing sex drives and sex drives change with age.