This is going to sound insane on a site like this but you don't have to live in SF. You can certainly choose too, but if you look at the pros/cons of job offers

This is going to sound insane on a site like this but you don't have to live in SF. You can certainly choose too, but if you look at the pros/cons of job offers, housing just makes SF untenable. There are plenty of other cities with plenty of other jobs.