For #4, how does the act of using a drug recreationally and responsibly cause any suffering at all to one's family? If I drink a beer, have a coffee, or smoke a

For #4, how does the act of using a drug recreationally and responsibly cause any suffering at all to one's family? If I drink a beer, have a coffee, or smoke a bowl, how does that affect, say, my mother who is 3,000 miles away? I have a feeling you're conflating use with abuse.