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> Plus any good friends will be there a year from now It's been 17 months since I made a similar decision. I'm not entirely sure if my friends will be there wh
by leesalminen 10y ago
> Plus any good friends will be there a year from now
It's been 17 months since I made a similar decision. I'm not entirely sure if my friends will be there when I come out the other side. They think I "hate" them because I've decided to put work before life.
- noobiemcfoob 10y agoWhile I don't like the phrasing "work before life", I can sympathize with friends not understanding. I experienced the same thing when I began really focusing on my career. In the end, I decided those friends were trapped in their own perceptions of what our relationship was supposed to look like. The true friends were the ones who simply said, "yeah, I noticed you buckling down. You do you; I'll see you next month"