The marital issues most frequently revolve around the affected partner (if there is only one) acting in disorganized, ineffective, irresponsible ways in the vie

The marital issues most frequently revolve around the affected partner (if there is only one) acting in disorganized, ineffective, irresponsible ways in the view of the unaffected spouse or partner. A frequent pattern is that the "normal" individual becomes demanding that the affected partner performs better, which arouses the affected person's opposition and irritation. Ultimately they become constantly angry at one another. Episodic or constant "warfare" is corrosive to the relationship which ultimately can't sustain the stress, resulting in failure of the relationship.