and how rarely we talked about or did anything that was really meaningful for me Just to check, have you found this to be important to you through experience o

and how rarely we talked about or did anything that was really meaningful for me Just to check, have you found this to be important to you through experience or are you just sort of assuming that meaning is important? Those groups and couples aren't really doing anything meaningful. They're just hanging out with each other because it's fun. If you're experiencing envy of people just hanging out and having fun then maybe your goals and your wants aren't aligned as well as they could be.