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Exactly, dating among coworkers is usually indicative that you don't have a broad circle to choose from. With some exceptions aside, I personally think it's a l
by orthoganol 10y ago
Exactly, dating among coworkers is usually indicative that you don't have a broad circle to choose from. With some exceptions aside, I personally think it's a little lame when people let circumstance dictate their dating life. Work on broadening your circle. Learn how to put yourself out there and meet new people. Take charge of it.
Well, the main reason I'm against dating others from work is that I've had to deal with people acting in annoying and unnatural ways because they are trying to impress someone on the team they are attracted to, even if its just subconscious on their part. Sometimes it's even the team leader, which is the worst. Make a rule that you don't date coworkers and the behavioral changes usually go away (break the rule if you want, but at least make it in the first place).
- the_af 10y agoYou're attracted to whom you're attracted. Attraction is not math. Maybe you already have friends and acquaintances, but happen to like someone at work? I met my wife at the office. I had friends at the time. There were some other women I was attracted to, as well. It didn't work with them. It worked with my wife. It's as simple as that.