If there's any condescension, it's not towards what they're doing now. A lot of it, I think, is cultural. Growing up poor but with a shot at college, you tend

If there's any condescension, it's not towards what they're doing now. A lot of it, I think, is cultural. Growing up poor but with a shot at college, you tend to make choices to not be poor. If you grow up affluent, there's a lot of "follow your dream"/"do what you love" despite the probability of maintaining affluence. So you end up studying musical theatre or Celtic Studies and working as an articulate barista.