Exactly, there are even situations where one's family is the reason for whatever semblance of career they have. Look at that Octomom person (I never thought I'd

Exactly, there are even situations where one's family is the reason for whatever semblance of career they have. Look at that Octomom person (I never thought I'd reference her on HN). Her entire "career" is based around her ability to breed. I think it's entirely wrong to say you have to choose between one and the other, because there are lots of cases where the model is broken.