This was exactly my problem with it. Although in many cases it is pragmatic, there's no real _reason_ why I ought to hold to utilitarianism except that I feel l

This was exactly my problem with it. Although in many cases it is pragmatic, there's no real _reason_ why I ought to hold to utilitarianism except that I feel like I should. That's not what a lot of people think of when they hear the word "morality."