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"like a little girl" Why not like a little boy? Because Joel thinks women are weaker then men, obviously.

brudgers 10y ago
My gut is that it shows a lack of phrase turning expertise, but admits the possibility that converse could be true. To put it another way, I suspect it's more likely an example of poor writing rather than a well honed expository detail. Doesn't change it's effects.
lucozade 10y ago
> Because Joel thinks women are weaker then men, obviously. Well no or, maybe he does, but you can't infer that from this. What he is referring to is the tendency of little girls to like, OMG, get super excited and make squeally noises. As a parent of both sexes and having refereed birthday parties for both I can safely say that his analogy was fair and wouldn't have worked if he had said "little boy". Of course, if he had run around the meeting room, screaming at the top of his lungs, trying to break furniture, then he had indeed picked the wrong gender.
- dorkalorka 10y ago
  Ah. You've just settled the whole nature-vs-nurture debate for us with your anecdote. Thanks! The world owes you a debt.
brazzledazzle 10y ago
It might be more charitable to assume that it's a reference to the perception that women are more emotional. I'm not saying that perception is valid or invalid but it's certainly more neutral than "women are weaker than men". That said it could be an artifact of a time where it was acceptable to say that kind of stuff. Like watching old movies reading old articles can be a bit jarring at times. But getting upset with someone for posting it to support a point is unfair.
- dragonwriter 10y ago
  > It might be more charitable to assume that it's a reference to the perception that women are more emotional. I'm not saying that perception is valid or invalid but it's certainly more neutral than "women are weaker than men". How is the idea that women are "more emotional" than men "more neutral" than the idea that "women are weaker than men".
  - HeyLaughingBoy 10y ago
    Hoping this doesn't turn the thread into a male/female thing... Assuming that your question is meant in good faith, here's an example. I have two sons. One is extremely emotional, far more so than his brother was at that age. He cries over minor incidents, take small slights to heart, gets upset easily, etc. His teacher describes him as "feeling things very deeply." However, he is also extremely bright and very strong willed. Even at a young age, we can already see that he is not the type of person who will allow himself to be taken advantage of. Despite his sometimes irritating emotionality, there is simply no way I could ever characterize him as weak. Does that help?
    - dorkalorka 10y ago
      You just showed that the words "weak" and "emotional" mean two different things. No one ever questioned that.
      - HeyLaughingBoy 10y ago
        The assumption in the post I replied to was that being emotional was seen essentially as being weak.
        dorkalorka 10y ago
        No it wasn't. The question was whether one was more neutral than the other.

My gut is that it shows a lack of phrase turning expertise, but admits the possibility that converse could be true. To put it another way, I suspect it's more likely an example of poor writing rather than a well honed expository detail. Doesn't change it's effects.

lucozade 10y ago

> Because Joel thinks women are weaker then men, obviously. Well no or, maybe he does, but you can't infer that from this. What he is referring to is the tendency of little girls to like, OMG, get super excited and make squeally noises. As a parent of both sexes and having refereed birthday parties for both I can safely say that his analogy was fair and wouldn't have worked if he had said "little boy". Of course, if he had run around the meeting room, screaming at the top of his lungs, trying to break furniture, then he had indeed picked the wrong gender.

dorkalorka 10y ago
Ah. You've just settled the whole nature-vs-nurture debate for us with your anecdote. Thanks! The world owes you a debt.

brazzledazzle 10y ago

It might be more charitable to assume that it's a reference to the perception that women are more emotional. I'm not saying that perception is valid or invalid but it's certainly more neutral than "women are weaker than men". That said it could be an artifact of a time where it was acceptable to say that kind of stuff. Like watching old movies reading old articles can be a bit jarring at times. But getting upset with someone for posting it to support a point is unfair.

dragonwriter 10y ago
> It might be more charitable to assume that it's a reference to the perception that women are more emotional. I'm not saying that perception is valid or invalid but it's certainly more neutral than "women are weaker than men". How is the idea that women are "more emotional" than men "more neutral" than the idea that "women are weaker than men".
- HeyLaughingBoy 10y ago
  Hoping this doesn't turn the thread into a male/female thing... Assuming that your question is meant in good faith, here's an example. I have two sons. One is extremely emotional, far more so than his brother was at that age. He cries over minor incidents, take small slights to heart, gets upset easily, etc. His teacher describes him as "feeling things very deeply." However, he is also extremely bright and very strong willed. Even at a young age, we can already see that he is not the type of person who will allow himself to be taken advantage of. Despite his sometimes irritating emotionality, there is simply no way I could ever characterize him as weak. Does that help?
  - dorkalorka 10y ago
    You just showed that the words "weak" and "emotional" mean two different things. No one ever questioned that.
    - HeyLaughingBoy 10y ago
      The assumption in the post I replied to was that being emotional was seen essentially as being weak.
      - dorkalorka 10y ago
        No it wasn't. The question was whether one was more neutral than the other.