We need personal bots that deal with all other future bots for us. I dont want to talk to the bot in dominos pizza, and the bot for facebook, and the bot for go

We need personal bots that deal with all other future bots for us. I dont want to talk to the bot in dominos pizza, and the bot for facebook, and the bot for google etc. I want my own personal bot, running on a server at home or at least in a location where I have a certain amount of control and access to it. It can be a framework of small bots with supervisors or similar, i dont care. I just dont want to sit and learn how to speak with each AI engine for everything I do. I also want to keep all my information private, not in the hands of 1 of the big corporations. Instead my bot or my family's bot should adapt and learn to speak to us, not the general public. It can answer requests from authorized extended family members such as photos or videos, as well as connecting video and audio feeds to the device I'm closest to at the moment. I can go on for a while, but it boils down to moving away from centralized companies and social networks and incorporating those systems as feeds into my own system that manages all my information flows.