That to me is a lack of self awareness and integrity. Not everyone is fully conscious of the things that drive them. That you feel hatred for such behavior sugg

That to me is a lack of self awareness and integrity. Not everyone is fully conscious of the things that drive them. That you feel hatred for such behavior suggests that you too have things about yourself that you are not aware of. Being nice is not the same as compassion. I'm glad you found a book that helped you understand it. However, based on this and your other comments on this thread, I think there is more to discover about this. There is a whole range of things related to love (and I don't mean romance) I think is missing from your discourse.