Sorry to get all experiential on you, but that statement is only empathisable with experience. I can go further in detail, but it really won't help you "get" it

Sorry to get all experiential on you, but that statement is only empathisable with experience. I can go further in detail, but it really won't help you "get" it. I suppose one way you can have that experience is practice actively trying to change people's behaviors. It's absolutely fascinating.