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> p.s. pleasing people also makes you happy, because you develop better relationships. I disagree with your causation. By people pleasing you develop relations
by kross 10y ago
> p.s. pleasing people also makes you happy, because you develop better relationships.
I disagree with your causation. By people pleasing you develop relationships that are inauthentic, which creates a fiction of good within your relationships. People pleasing and expecting those "better relationships" to be real is just perpetuating your own fiction.
- avindroth 10y agoWe must define people-pleasing differently then. I am way too lazy to rewrite stuff ten million times, read some of my other comments.