It's both a blessing and a curse. As a bisexual man in a relationship with another male software developer the way I understand my partner is something that tru

It's both a blessing and a curse. As a bisexual man in a relationship with another male software developer the way I understand my partner is something that trumps my wildest dreams. On the other hand, it's very easy to let software development get the upper hand in the relationship, especially when your day consists of waking up, going to work together, literally working back to back at the same startup for 9 to 14 hours, and then going home to sleep. I do feel knowing what my partner does all day makes me connect to him better on an emotional level as well, which is a really nice bonus. I'd say in general it helps the relationship, but it does not come without pitfalls.