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I think that this is correct. Even if the person thought that they were correct, they had to have known that saying that would have hurt you. If anything, tha

I think that this is correct. Even if the person thought that they were correct, they had to have known that saying that would have hurt you. If anything, that person isn't your friend. If the other people chat with you, eat with you, or just otherwise interact with you ... they're your friends. Perhaps they're not close friends, but that doesn't mean that there isn't some level of mutual respect and enjoyment of your company.

zeveb 10y ago
> If the other people chat with you, eat with you, or just otherwise interact with you ... they're your friends. That really doesn't follow. I've had to maintain a pleasant working relationship with folks I've cordially loathed (and I'm certain the feeling was mutual). In every situation, we were friendly, pleasant and worked together well — but at the end of the day, we couldn't stand one another. Sometimes you don't get to choose your colleagues: your only choice is to quit or to continue.