> truly intelligent children won't be afraid to use their intelligence to get ahead I think you're saying that unless you give intelligent children permission

> truly intelligent children won't be afraid to use their intelligence to get ahead I think you're saying that unless you give intelligent children permission to use their intelligence, they won't do so, or will do so less. I find that very dubious. What evidence do you have for this? I even feel (though I hope I am mistaken) that what you are really after is a hint that it's okay for your kids to feel superior or entitled in some sense relative to kids that are less intelligent. If intelligence is useful for producing work, why not let all kids be judged by the work they produce, rather than something abstract like intelligence?