I wish you good luck with this approach. I prefer to understand people I disagree with - many arguments are rooted in personal history, not naked facts. I trie

I wish you good luck with this approach. I prefer to understand people I disagree with - many arguments are rooted in personal history, not naked facts. I tried the "purely fact driven, ignore emotions" approach - it did not lead me to a point where I was happy. (It tends to stunt relationships, in my experience) I hope it plays out better for you.