You mean like when the parent poster did this: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12233452 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12233452 ?? She indicated tha

You mean like when the parent poster did this: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12233452 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12233452 ?? She indicated that it doesn't matter how the word is used, some will see it as aggressive.