I said in the OP: "if you get something wrong they can correct you" So the idea is the other person says something, and you say back what you think they are sa

I said in the OP: "if you get something wrong they can correct you" So the idea is the other person says something, and you say back what you think they are saying. If you got it right, they see you understand them and can move on to the next point they want to say. If you got it wrong, they can correct you. I think this process or something like it is essential for good communication when emotions are high or ideas are complicated.