A new take on this, at least for me, is that a child explodes when they don't have the skillset to deal with life. Try the book "The Explosive Child" by Ross W.

A new take on this, at least for me, is that a child explodes when they don't have the skillset to deal with life. Try the book "The Explosive Child" by Ross W. Greene and see if it helps. If nothing else it's a very different viewpoint on the problem, and one that lends itself to compassion.