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If you think that enforcing real names induces civility and you use Facebook as an example, your argument is wrong and self-contradictory. Facebook is /proof/
by bmo311 10y ago
If you think that enforcing real names induces civility and you use Facebook as an example, your argument is wrong and self-contradictory.
Facebook is /proof/ that the Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory doesn't need anonymity. What the Internet proves about communication is that fuckwaddery (yes, this is a word, my word) is inversely proportional to interface friction. The quicker it is to spill the contents of your mind without the filtration enabled by interface difficulty, the more crap you can put out. Since 90 percent of everything is crap, [Sturgeon] even what you are thinking 90 percent of the time is crap and you're lucky if you manage to only commit the remaining 10 percent without contaminating it with the rest. Interface difficulty enforces thinking about what you commit to discussion. Which is why pen-and-ink letter writing "is an art" and the twitterverse is a cesspool - real names or not.
This is not to say that if everything went back to pen-and-paper that there would be no fuckwads. There would simply be fewer of them.
Lastly, I never used my real name on Facebook or other social media. Why should I give up what I have every right to do in real life just because it's electronic? People don't care whether I'm using my real name or alias as long as they know who they're talking to.
BMO's Revised Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory
(Normal person + communication medium) / interface friction = fuckwad
And when friction=0, you have a black hole of fuckwaddery. You usually get this when you use alcohol as a lubricant.
- CM30 10y agoI'd say fuckwaddery or whatever is more proportional to the distance between the user and the person they're communicating with. If someone lives in the same town, you'll be a lot more hesitant to insult the hell out of them than if they live on another continent. That might be why Facebook, Twitter, Reddit, etc are so screwed up. Because the userbase knows that there's a very slim chance they'll ever meet the person they're attacking online. That there's a slim chance there'll ever be any genuine consequences for their actions. Of course, making it easier and more convenient like on the sites (or limiting people to only 140 characters) definitely makes it easier to be a douche. But you're not going to send a threatening SMS message to someone sitting next to you.
- intended 10y agoBullies operate on people who are in the same school as them, it has nothing to do with distance.