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This is a little unfair. I agree with you in spirit, but this policy is pretty damn close: note that "primary caregiver" leave is also a full 16 weeks. I've se
by basseq 10y ago
This is a little unfair.
I agree with you in spirit, but this policy is pretty damn close: note that "primary caregiver" leave is also a full 16 weeks. I've seen companies move away from "maternity" vs. "paternity" terms and just talk about "primary caregiver" and "secondary caregiver". Which not only gets away from the gender-specific career costs, but also covers non-birth parents (e.g., adoption, surrogates).[1]
In other words, the father[2] is more than able to step into the primary caregiver role and allow the mother to return to work and minimize career impact.
Now, there's a separate argument that both parents should get equal time off. I agree with that view as well, but it's a different philosophical argument.
Finally, I would be interested to know if there's a tenure requirement for parental leave at Basecamp. It's often 12 months "vesting", which is a bummer for those with children on the horizon. I recently switched jobs and had a kid: I gave up an 8-week parental leave benefit at my old company for no benefit whatsoever at the new one. I made the decision that the cost (losing the benefit) was worth the opportunity, but I could see others deferring a job change in that instance. This is a rather insidious form of Family Responsibilities Discrimination that adds a career cost to both men and women (and moreso for women).
[1] Traditional maternity policies are often focused on the medical aspects of childbirth rather than newborn bonding and care.
[2] Replace with other terms as appropriate.
- karmajunkie 10y agoI see where you're coming from but couldn't disagree more. In a balanced world, there is no such thing as a primary caregiver—both parents are equally responsible. A company should be completely agnostic with regards to who is giving what care to the child and when.
- basseq 10y agoWe don't disagree. My point is that Basecamp is "above average" on parental benefits, and their policy isn't "standard". Could they be better? Yes. And is it fair to ask them to be even more of a leader? Sure. But let's recognize how far they've come, rather than chastising them for not reaching "ideal" goals.
- karmajunkie 10y agoI believe I did note that they have a great benefits package overall, but especially in light of all of the attention on diversity in tech issues, I believe it's even more incumbent on us to point out egregious double standards. Perhaps because they do provide a generous maternity leave, it's especially noteworthy (and to me, irksome) that the maternity leave is almost three times longer than the paternity equivalent. Stopping at a pat on the back for coming this far isn't enough.