The standard I often judge groups by is whether it's possible to be a decent person and remain a member of the group; rather than looking at the assholes, I loo

The standard I often judge groups by is whether it's possible to be a decent person and remain a member of the group; rather than looking at the assholes, I look at how the group treats members who stand up to the assholes. Unfortunately, a lot of groups have been failing this spectacularly, and the older a group the worse it often seems to get.