Rage. Your employer pays your salary, you do your very best work for them. That is all you owe them. If they expect to make a penny more without you, they will.

Rage. Your employer pays your salary, you do your very best work for them. That is all you owe them. If they expect to make a penny more without you, they will. You do not owe them loyalty beyond that. You owe negative loyalty to a recruiter, especially somebody trying to guilt you.