You did nothing wrong. Keep doing what you are doing, spend some time interviewing, it's a great skill to develop. Don't feel like you're cheating on your wif

You did nothing wrong. Keep doing what you are doing, spend some time interviewing, it's a great skill to develop. Don't feel like you're cheating on your wife, your current employer is not your wife. If at any point, they realize that they are better off without you they'll sack you, period. If the companies you interview with really want you they'll make it worth your while. They'll adjust their offer to compensate for all the items you listed, otherwise, they just accept the fact that you can walk at any time.