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As someone who grew up poor (albeit white), I'm going to try to explain a core problem to you - role models. When I looked at the adults around me growing up,
by beat 10y ago
As someone who grew up poor (albeit white), I'm going to try to explain a core problem to you - role models.
When I looked at the adults around me growing up, I didn't see educated people. The responsible adult professionals were motorcycle mechanics, truck drivers, stuff like that. The less responsible were day laborers or petty criminals. The only people I encountered who were educated were teachers and doctors, and the wealthy men my father often worked for whom he condescendingly called "edjicated mow-rawns" in his thick Kentucky drawl. What I knew of success was seething class resentment.
I don't think I knew a single adult who was an engineer or technical professional. But I was clever, and read a lot of science fiction. I was originally interested in automotive/motorcycle engineering, having grown up around racing. But I discovered computers in high school, and that was that.
The boundaries we can imagine are limited by our childhood experiences. If you grow up wealthy and privileged, surrounded by doctors and lawyers and executives, you expect adulthood to look like that. If you grow up in a world where the only adults you know are hustlers and criminals, that's what you can imagine.
So why aren't there more black engineers? In part, because there aren't black engineers. And what black engineers there are, are underemployed, because they didn't necessarily go to the elite schools or have the other earmarks of privilege.
Fixing this is going to take more than the myth of rugged individualism.
- JoeAltmaier 10y agoGlad to hear you made it out. But seems like your own story gives lie to the theory that role models are necessary. You didn't have any; didn't need them. Just needed opportunity.
- beat 10y agoIt's possible to escape without role models - but it's a lot harder. And quite frankly, I'm still privileged. I'm white. I'm male. If I'd been black, I don't think I would have escaped. The fact that I'm a white male means that, once I've melted into the new System, no one notices me as different. One of my best friends, who is far more professionally successful than me, is black. It still trips him up all the time. If he drives through the wrong town, cops don't see a doctor who shifted careers to finance. They see a big dark-skinned black dude driving a car way too nice for him. White male engineers, working careers surrounded by white males, socializing mostly with successful white professionals, typically have no clue how everyone else lives. Their advice is mostly useless. Or, as a female friend recently put it, it's like someone whose entire experience with horses is owning a stuffed unicorn giving advice on how to ride to people struggling with actual horses.
- JoeAltmaier 10y agoThat's a very vivid analogy! I'll use that in future if you don't mind.
- beat 10y agoIsn't it? My friend Jennifer came up with that. I'm sure she wouldn't mind if it spreads around!