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She worked for thirteen years in health care, becoming the director of a residence program for men who’d suffered severe head injuries. But she and her
by terminado 10y ago
She worked for thirteen years in health
care, becoming the director of a residence
program for men who’d suffered severe head
injuries. But she and her husband began
fighting. There were betrayals. By the time
she was thirty-two, her marriage had
disintegrated. In the divorce, she lost
possession of their home, and, amid her
financial and psychological struggles, she
saw that she was losing her children, too.
Within a few years, she was drinking. She
began dating someone, and they drank together.
After a while, he brought some drugs home,
and she tried them. The drugs got harder.
Eventually, they were doing heroin, which
turned out to be readily available from a
street dealer a block away from her apartment.
One day, she went to see a doctor because
she wasn’t feeling well, and learned that
she had contracted H.I.V. from a contaminated
needle. She had to leave her job. She lost
visiting rights with her children.
God, that is hellishly brutal. I'm assuming she's dead now, and a de-identified version of the story can be told.
- danso 10y agoThe article is 8 years old. So she'd be only 56 years old now. > I met M. seven years after she’d been discharged from the rehabilitation hospital. She is forty-eight now. She lives in a three-room apartment, with a crucifix and a bust of Jesus on the wall and the low yellow light of table lamps strung with beads over their shades. Stacked in a wicker basket next to her coffee table were Rick Warren’s “The Purpose Driven Life,” People, and the latest issue of Neurology Now, a magazine for patients. Together, they summed up her struggles, for she is still fighting the meaninglessness, the isolation, and the physiology of her predicament.