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> Yes, this is something all men should be aware of. Don't act creepy to little kids. I was the same way, until I had a kid of my own. Let me clarify this stat

> Yes, this is something all men should be aware of. Don't act creepy to little kids. I was the same way, until I had a kid of my own. Let me clarify this statement a bit: before having a kid, I was mindful of how I interacted with strangers and their children. > Is that okay, because her justified fear of men (white and black) around her child over-rides any implications of racism? I can't speak for all parents, but I hope if my wife feels uncomfortable about a situation, she does something about it, especially if our kids are involved. A persons safety trumps any desire protect someones feelings against racism. If a 6'2 male is going to cross my path when it's dark, I will certainly become more aware of my surroundings, regardless of their race. I will also turn and make sure they continue walking past me.

jonahx 10y ago
Right, I get it. I feel the same. But the thing is, the logic "A persons safety trumps any desire protect someones feelings against racism" is exactly the logic that racists use. Some of the people who want to build a wall feel genuine fear, never mind its basis in reality. In their reality it's real. I'm not arguing that the logic is in itself wrong -- but whether that logic is being used in a reasonable way (as you seem to be doing) or being twisted into the service of something unfair and evil is, in the end, a matter of judgement and context.