> The ones in bold are the ones that have affected me the most. I was surprised that some of the things in the list that I would have though to be the most inn

> The ones in bold are the ones that have affected me the most. I was surprised that some of the things in the list that I would have though to be the most innocuous turned out to be the ones that actually affected him the most. I guess this goes to show that its the little but pervasive things that hurt the most.