That might make sense if it were isolated, but this is a covert aggression that one adds to a heap of daily transgressions that are similar. You can't avoid spe

That might make sense if it were isolated, but this is a covert aggression that one adds to a heap of daily transgressions that are similar. You can't avoid spending emotional energy on it: the unconscious mind has already integrated the behavior and reacts to it, forcing you to deal with the emotional response.