Yes. I have a hard time getting excited about children when the species survival is in no danger, family names care so little value these days (I will be dead a

Yes. I have a hard time getting excited about children when the species survival is in no danger, family names care so little value these days (I will be dead anyway) and there is no guarantee your kid will be a good thing for the world (we hope they will and that would be our legacy). There is the argument that says children will make you see life differently but that requires a lot of faith. Will it? Can I see it differently without the cost of raising children? Anyway, I bet it's something a lot of people have thought about and come to terms with either choice. I still am unsure.