I'm not sure if it's learned or innate but it goes a little like this: No matter what happens, I'll still be breathing tomorrow, unless I die in which case it

I'm not sure if it's learned or innate but it goes a little like this: No matter what happens, I'll still be breathing tomorrow, unless I die in which case it doesn't matter anyway. I approach everything in life under the assumption that I'll reach my goal. Some things go wrong, of course, but mostly the world gets out of my way and lets me pass. A "failure" means that your success doesn't lie with them. Move on. Also, take some time to think about WHY you have the goals that you do. Are they really what you want, or just something that other people told you to want? The world is full of successfully miserable people.