My wife and I debated having kids. By my mid 30's I felt like I was living a stupid life that was basically me sitting around watching sports at bars and waitin

My wife and I debated having kids. By my mid 30's I felt like I was living a stupid life that was basically me sitting around watching sports at bars and waiting for the next cool video game to come out. My son gives me life immense meaning, but boy have the stress levels gone up. There's no "right" answer, just the choices you make and the ramifications of them. For me it was stressful life full of meaning, or easy life that felt empty and meaningless.